“In a healthy relationship, your partner hears you out if you’re upset, and their goal is to avoid upsetting you in the future, not to debate whether you should have been upset in the first place.”
thinking about all the shitty people i’ve opened up to makes me physically sick it’s so weird to think there are people walking around who don’t deserve to know me like they do/did i want my time back
growing up finding girls attractive without registering it as attraction sucks because you basically end up weirdly fixated on them but also super insecure and competitive
there’s a future version of me who’s proud I was strong enough
This is the thing I needed to hear today. Thank you.
what others call a rebellious phase I call the sudden realization I don’t deserve to be treated like garabge
IT HAS BEEN SAID
just because you don’t look like somebody who you think is attractive doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive. flowers are pretty but so are christmas lights and they look nothing alike
I don’t think anyone could’ve said it in a better way
I reblog these things in the hope that someday I will grow to believe them.
Treat yourself how you’d treat a puppy: go outside at least twice a day, and don’t forget to feed regularly. Keep a supply of water on hand. Compliment appearance regularly (bc you’re super cute). Be above all kind to yourself– if you’re nice to puppies, you can be nice to you.
*anxious at night*
next day: “haha boy that was a silly thing to be anxious about”
that night: “OR WAS IT”
(Source: wanderlust-er)




